I'm a really confused bisexual or lesbian...what do you think it is? What feelings do I have for men?

you have similar preferences as myself...I just think go with the flow, i would say you're lesbian because you like females in all ways. But sexuality is fluid which still allows for other attractions- you get turned on by male parts and i think because you don't want to have sex with them that would make you lesbian. Honestly who cares for labels, i mean if someone asks you, you can just say i prefer women you don't have to say you're lesbian or bisexual. I think you like male attention though, it is nice when someone shows interest because it makes you feel desirable so that's why you flirt back i'm guessing..if you're still unsure you could meet a guy you find attractive and sleep with him to see if you like it or form a relationship to see if you like being romantic with men, if not at least you know for sure.